When you find yourself in a perspective that life is either white or black, right or wrong, abundance or lack, you are plugging into duality programs and this keeps you from reaching contentment in the middle ground of two opposing extremes. Also, when you are attached to the labels you set for yourself, you are denying yourself of your limitless potential.
These duality programs and labels are your confining box that takes your power away. You can take your power back and choose to go beyond the limits of duality and labels.